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Swapping Wednesday for Sunday

October 6, 2026 By kelbarron

The other week, I took a mental health day – treating Wednesday as if it were a Sunday.

I slept in, took a leisurely walk, and worked later in the day – just a little bit.

Intentionally scrambling the days of the week like eggs in a pan felt like a radical undoing.

Having a Sunday-sort of feeling in the middle of the week was refreshing. Unlike Wednesdays, which disappoint with their not-quite-there-yet view of the rest of the week, Sundays are pastoral, open-aired. They’re also distinctly different from get-it-done Mondays or Tuesdays, which quickly bloat with work.

Anyway, all of that is just my weekday perception of time, proof of how hidebound I’ve become – as has our culture – in forcing time into an industrialized, work-a-day mold.

Before I say more about any of this, I recognize my privilege. Most of us can’t take a day off when we feel like it, if at all.

But saying no to what a weekday or your usual routine prescribes is liberating, and you can do it in small ways. (See below for suggestions) Sometimes it’s even necessary to fend off the blahs, generate new ideas, and feel inspired again.

Routines are comforting and mood-stabilizing. But they’re also stupefying. Without occasionally shaking the snow globe of our lives, it’s easy to feel overworked or bored.

Switching things up takes effort and mindfulness because it goes against our nature. Social scientists say that as much as 65% of everyday behaviors are automatic and habitual rather than conscious.

Maybe that’s why when I hear that someone went out dancing on a Monday night or ate pancakes for lunch, it feels thrilling.

A friend once confessed that if she wants to watch television at 3 p.m. while working from home, she does it.

I remember thinking at the time how amazing that small act of rebellion sounded. So much so that I followed her lead. I discovered watching television in the afternoon was delightful, like having ice cream for dinner. It also made me more productive. My work flowed much more easily after indulging in a guilty pleasure.

Research shows that novelty is healthy for our brains, increasing motivation and learning. It also releases dopamine in the brain’s reward center.

You needn’t take a day off to invite a bit of novelty into your life to beat the blahs or renew your mental health. Just adding a twist to anything you routinely do can liven things up. Here are a few suggestions:

  • Eat Mindfully: Even taking a single bite of a strawberry with full, embodied attention can change how you experience the habitual act of eating. It never fails to amaze me how slowing down to see, hear, and taste my food fundamentally changes my relationship to what I’m eating, typically making it more enjoyable and interesting.
  • Take Another Route: The other day, I took an unfamiliar route to a friend’s house. Doing so sparked a host of reactions – confusion, interest, worry, and joy. All that in a 20-minute drive. The confusion and worry about not knowing where I was going faded as I saw so many new and delightful things along the way.
  • Do the Same Thing Differently: I meditate every morning and practice Qigong. Lately, I’ve decided I’m going to do both outdoors. It’s not a dramatic change, and yet it feels new and even like a bit of a stretch. I’ve also noticed that it’s boosted my mood.

On My Mind

 

The other morning, sitting at the breakfast table, I realized my daughter was speaking to me – typical morning chitchat – and I wasn’t listening.

It wasn’t just that I caught myself distracted; I seemed entirely tuned out.

There’s a name for this: Close-contact bias.

The people we’re most familiar with – even those we love the most – tend to get the short end of the stick when it comes to our attention and presence. What’s familiar tends to become routine and dull our attention.

But mindfulness can break us out of this spell.

The next time you notice you’re not paying attention to a friend, colleague, or family member, pause.

Better yet, take a slow, deliberate breath, settle back into your body, and then give them your full attention.

Doing so will not only strengthen your relationship, but also make you enjoy spending time with them more.

Connecting more deeply with others is one of the things many of my clients and students notice as a result of mindfulness practice – my temporary lapse notwithstanding.

Who in your life might be getting the short end of your attention?

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